One thing that

I have figured out is that you have to learn to control your emotions, or at least the visible side of them. People really have no interest in your crappy days, they have their own crappy days to deal with. People don't want to know about your joy and celebration, they can't get excited when they have their crappy days to deal with. People don't want to know about your everyday.....well because it is your every day, and it is mundane.

I have figure out a way to stop wanting to know....